In daily civilized life, one aspect of this is what was once widely called "the benefit of the doubt." Assuming that most people were basically honest, you could extend trust to others that they weren't consciously lying to you. In turn, you'd be extended the same trust unless and until you violated that trust. In fact, civilization rests on this fragile assumption. We could hardly func
tion if we started from the assumption that every encounter and transa
ction in our daily lives was fraught with peril: that we risked being poisoned every time we dined out or purchased food, that we were in danger of being cheated or endangered every time we purchased or used a product or that the people we routinely encountered in the street were likely to rob or victimize us.It is not that there is no evil or dishonesty in the world. But "the benefit of the doubt" treats these as exceptions, not the rule.
That may be waning. One increasingly hears angry, bitter talk about others and their motives. In these tough economic times, all bankers are greedy swindlers, all politicians are robbers and crooks, everyone in government is dedicated to recklessly tax and spend, all conservatives are crazed anarchists, all liberals are socialist power grabbers etc.. Sometimes it is all just infotainment -- the rehearsed diatribes of Keith Olbermann on the left or Glenn Beck on the right. Sometimes it is the practiced rhetoric of demonizing your opponents at televised "hearings" where no one listens or in political campaigns where 30 second commercials feature grainy photos of your opponent that morph into photos of Osama Bin Laden.
But this cynical manipulation creeps increasingly into the vocabulary and attitude of people who aren't paid to tear down others. It just seems to come increasingly naturally. The shrill denunciation of others is now standard fare on talk radio, Internet comment boards and fiery emails. Why give anyone the benefit of the doubt? If they disagree with you or are a member of any identifiable group you disdain, then the assumption is that they are evil, stupid and/or greedy. The "benefit of the doubt" would at least grant that they may simply be mistaken. The "detriment of the doubt" assumes that "they" are out to get you, so go after them faster and harder.
This poisonous polarization now seems entrenched in Washington and Sacramento. Lately, we see more and more of it at home as well.
Ventura, like most cities, has long had a handful of "gadflies" who inflate their self-importance by showing up at public forums to rant about one topic or another. Several have made numerous runs at public office. They have a certain "folk hero" appeal, the underdog "fighting City Hall." A couple of others specialize in spewing their vitriol in local newspapers, including the online version of the Ventura County Star.
What's troubling, however, is the rise in others adopting their tactics. Opponents are "idiots," "clowns," "racists" or "thieves." Local public officials are branded as ruthless schemers who should all be tossed out. The goal isn't to persuade -- it is to rid the town forever of those who oppose you. The solution to complex problems is to blame someone, to blast someone, to fire someone or to recall someone.
Perhaps this too shall pass. The law of karma has not been repealed. Those who break the Golden Rule do not live serene or happy lives. They must live with their anger, bitterness and mistrust. While they may have their day, as Lincoln observed, "you can fool some of the people all of the time, you can fool all of the people some of the time, but you can't fool all the people all the time." The wisdom of the ages sides with the angels, not with those who demonize others.
None of us is perfect. All of us make mistakes. In public life and private conduct, we are all subject to criticism and accountability. But "the benefit of the doubt" goes further in both than its opposite. Ronald Reagan never had any illusions about his adversaries in the Soviet Union. Still, in dealing with Mikhail Gorbachev, he adopted the old Russian proverb, "Trust, but verify."
It's a good standard. If we can't trust others, if we don't treat them as we'd like to be treated, if we stop at nothing to get our way, everyone ultimately loses. The "detriment of the doubt" hurts us all.
Have a nice day!

5 comments:
I agree with you, Rick!
Whether your view of man's state of nature is (a) that man is basically good and civilization has grown out of that basic goodness and concomitant "growth" impulse, or (b) that man is a self-serving, self-interested animal for whom the strongest win, and so the weaker and smarter have banded together to form societies to defend themselves against the whims of the stronger self-servers, this benefit of the doubt vs. "detriment" of the doubt concept is sorely relevant!
As I keep desperately trying to impress upon the sponge-like minds of my almost teen sons, the freedoms they (and we!) so desperately desire (be they the freedom of a 13 year old to access the internet without parental oversight or the freedom of an adult to smoke, procreate - think China - or even speak their mind freely) -- these freedoms are possible ONLY with OUR assumption of responsibility for our lives and actions (and failures to act) on an ongoing basis!
This widespread "detriment" of the doubt which seems to have proliferated with our growing and greedy over-consumption of everything in our lives (be it food or drink, reality TV, entitlements to whatever we believe we're entitled, or anything else that we deem pleasurable) entails an abandonment of the responsibility to be HUMAN to ourselves and our fellow man (and woman too, of course!), even while expecting to retain the freedoms OUR forefathers, AND our soldiers, have so desperately fought for and tried to sustain since our nation's, and our western civilization's, founding so long ago.
After all, if we truly desire and demand, as we should, that our CHILDREN assume some responsibility for their lives and actions - if they want the freedoms they so desperately say they want - shouldn't we also "practice what we preach" and assume some responsibility for our own humanity? Or are we content to continue telling everyone it's not their fault for the way they act but that it's just a sign of the times, so don't worry about it!
"Ventura, like most cities, has long had a handful of "gadflies" who inflate their self-importance by showing up at public forums to rant about one topic or another. Several have made numerous runs at public office. They have a certain "folk hero" appeal, the underdog "fighting City Hall." A couple of others specialize in spewing their vitriol in local newspapers, including the online version of the Ventura County Star.
What's troubling, however, is the rise in others adopting their tactics. Opponents are "idiots," "clowns," "racists" or "thieves.""
Nobody deserves to be the victim of ad hominem attacks.
However, without knowing exactly who you're alluding to, as a former citizen of Ventura (20+ years) I believe many of those you refer to as "gadflys" had valid points that often went unheard. I myself am one of those people whose trust in Ventura was shattered, and I gave Ventura the benefit of the doubt. As much as the "golden rule" is a foundation of civilization, so is the fact that you can't ostracize and ignore people with valid points. There are many others like me and for the most part you don't hear from or about us, because we've left Ventura behind. It's too bad, as Ventura could really be a nice place for all its people, but it's easier to improve one's own life than to try to convince others.
I think Ventura's City Council would do well to take a lesson from Domino's Pizza: approach your constituents more humbly, asking for genuine advice as to where you've erred and how Ventura might improve, and listen. Communication and cooperation can often accomplish much in times of little.
I think both comments focus on responsibility. Rick Nyznyk (who had the responsibility to use his own name) emphasizes instilling in our kids the responsibility that comes with liberty.
"Anonymous" says he left the city because his trust was shattered and he preferred relocating to working to improve the situation that disappoints him.
I agree with "anonymous" that even the gadflies I allude to have valid points. But when they yell, rudely interrupt others, call names and distort facts, they undermine their own credibility. When the vast majority of their comments are diatribes about what is utterly wrong with virtually everything the City does(going back years), one has to wonder what exactly is their contribution to a better community?
Fortunately this is a very tiny number of people. Unfortunately, it seems to be growing.
Rick, I have noted a certain self-righteous defensiveness mixed with a certain bureaucratic sense of self-preservation in not only your comments here, but in your views over time. Mr. Rencher et al have/had multiple excellent points, and often he has been defended publicly by local architect Michael Faulconer as well as myself when I served 5 years ( and reviewed 500-plus sets of plans for free ) on the DRC. You were the one who promoted the WAV - that $57 million project with two known occupants whose mortgage will be paid off by the American taxpayers in order to benefit the low income tax writeoff envisioned by its investors. I quit the DRC rather abruptly because, upon voicing a very real concern affecting the less-than-holy manner in which the City issued permits adversely affecting our home, with no notice, and after having contacted the head of your fire and building department, Andrew Stuffler, the guy supposedly in charge, with no response, I said to myself - "screw this city" - and I meant the city staff in question - not the people. Does that indicate to you rather succinctly why people become cynical. P.S. - Olbermann is crazy and does not deserve to be on the same page with Beck. How's that ?
John, respectfully, the City of Ventura, like all human institutions isn't perfect and certainly can't please all the people all the time. We've made our share of mistakes, including some big ones in this economic downturn (not dumping our Lehman AAA notes and imposing the 911 fee, for example.) So no one is asking to be immune from criticism or duck accountability. But why are harsh and personal attacks on anyone -- elected officials, staff or citizens -- okay? Sure, I know the old saying, "If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen." But making hard decisions under intense scrutiny is challenging enough with out "take no prisoner" attitudes from those who insist on their way or the highway.
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